Hey, thanks for the reminder. I had forgotten about this. Sorry about that.
As it is my, daughter is in Italy right now on some wine expedition (I call it a tour) for her job. She did respond this afternoon to my e-mail I sent her yesterday. It was rather short (not like her) but she is rather busy. She said if she finds time she will embellish later. She recommended any of these.
Wineries
Cakebread Cellars
Sequoia Grove
Domaine Carneros
Benziger Family Winery
Restaurants
The Restaurant at Meadowood
The French Laundry (will be hard to get a reservation on short notice)
Hope this helps.