We often stop in at Coleman's after games to extend the party (if we win) or drown our sorrows (if we lose). A few years ago, after a St John's game (we won) we were at the end of the bar near the dining room, drinking beer and discussing the game. Raf, Tirico and Boeheim walked in. On their way to the dining room, Raf stopped and with a big smile began to chat up the game. A couple of minutes later Tirico joined us. Then Boeheim walked by, nose in the air, didn't glance in our direction, and continued to the dining room. After a couple more minutes Raf and Tirico joined Boeheim.
I don't mean for this to be a criticism of Boeheim. I'm sure he was decompressing. More a comment on the wonderful outgoing personality of Raf, as well as Mike. He is as genuine as he appears during his broadcasts.