I left the Air Force a year and a half before 9/11. The family was settled in our new house and my wife and I were in our respective jobs, the kids in school, and we had returned to civilian life in the Syracuse area.
I returned home from work that fateful September day, walked in the door, my wife then greeted me with one word, "No".
All of my brothers and sisters who have served will know why she said that.
To the fallen and to those who lost a family member or friend, my heart is with you. Never forget.