Ibuprofen isn't
always safe or ideal (high blood pressure, kidney disease, ulcers, etc.), and in that case I would suggest Voltaren (diclofenac) topical gel.
I will defer to the surgeons here on their opinions, but as a PCP, more often than not I hear "I should have done this sooner." The pain and loss of function occur so slowly and gradually that you lose appreciation for
how much you have actually lost. As far as a second opinion...that should always be an option if you're not sure.
Best of luck to you
dasher!