exactly, with all due respect to whitey, he uses pressure in a negative connotation. of course, there is some pressure. however, i dont see the coaches leveraging it in an unethical way. eg. telling a recruit if he visits any other school he's done
If a coach extends an offer and doesn't give a timeframe, then calls back 2 months later and says you need to commit or the offer will be taken away, is that ethical?
I don't have any issue with what the coaching staff does, but to think there is anything ethical about college football recruiting or that the Syracuse staff is above it is putting your head in the sand.
I also don't think the "precedent" you are discussing will do anything. Every recruit thinks they are the top dog and schools should be fawning over them.