OrangeTarheel
It’s time to kick names and take ass
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I’ll echo this, housing without support services is very little help and the long term chances for success in achieving independence is low without such services. Those services do exist - certainly in a city the size of Syracuse - but single men often have fewer programs they can plug into (families and domestic violence shelters are a large part of housing and service options). IF Syracuse has a role to play here it would be to make sure former players know about these supports and find ways to encourage participation in them. Hopefully they would also participate in some monetary fashion.Those are bad/sad optics, but that still doesn't show how SU "failed" him. Is he more special than any other student? Does the University "owe" any/all students down on their luck, wherever and whomever they are?
I know many examples of good people, good families, who have children (or other family members) who cannot find the right path no matter how much help is offered. They, too, may feel that they "failed" their loved ones, but this is often unfounded guilt. The two most common examples are drug abuse and mental illness. I don't know how you can find the University culpable in these matters.
Sometimes there isn't enough love or money to help. I cannot stress enough how horrible this is, but it doesn't make it any less true. A "free" apartment is a nice gesture, but removing him from the street doesn't fix everything. It's an umbrella in a never-ending storm. It may help others in not having to see the problem, but then who are we helping? We are merely assuaging our guilt at that point.
I get the sense that the university will provide as much networking opportunity as they can to players. That’s a big help. And the vast majority of players won’t need much more than that be achieve financial independence.