Everyone wants to watch players play. No one wants to watch officials ref. So if I can say "Get out of there" a dozen times and the players do it, it's a lot better than even a single "three seconds" call. So you save the call for when it's needed or necessary, and that decision rests with the officials. Period. Basketball is not a democracy.
So I'm sorry, I'm not too sure what more I can tell anyone. It's not so much that officials are told
not to call it, rather they're told
how to call it, and it involves judgment. Everyone can see the players and the lanes, but no one can see judgment going on in the referee's head. And again, it boils down to advantage/disadvantage. If a player is gaining an advantage, or creating a disadvantage, by doing something against the rules, then the ref has a decision to make. The officials' job is not to ram every last rule in the book down everyone's throat, their job is to make the game fair. And if they relax on something like lane violations both ways, that's fair. And there's just a lot more important things going on during a basketball game than possible lane violations. It's low on the priority list, and that's just the way it is.
Perception is important here, too. Fans, announcers, coaches, players and referees all see things differently. Always have and always will. Just because a Mike Tirico says something doesn't mean he's right. One of the reasons I don't watch NBA is because the announcers often say outrageously silly things about rules, and often say things about a play that happened, when I saw the same play and they're just plain wrong. College ball announcers are often the same, but I love the game so I often watch it with the sound off. Coaches are funny that way, too. Sometimes when a good post player is having a good game, and the opposing team is having trouble trying to stop him, the coach will start with the "He's camping in there!" or, "How long in there?" because if they can influence even one call their way, that might be the difference in a close game. So they try. :noidea:
If an announcer says or even implies that stricter enforcement of lane violations will help clean up physical play in the lane, that doesn't mean he's right. If officials became "three second Nazis" they're not going to turn a Przemek Karnowski into Bambi. Physical play happens all over the floor, not just in the lane and you can't call everything that happens because soon you'll foul everyone out and you won't have a game any more. The reason the focus or emphasis is on lane/low post play is because one way or another the ball's coming in there (especially since the shot clock came along) because that's where the basket is. So you try to protect the ball handler, and especially the shooter, and you live with the rest as long as it's even or fair.