bevosu
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Excellent point. I've experienced the same thing. Like Whitlock says, I'm no angel and far from perfect, but there have been a number of times in my life where I've helped family members financially, or I've been the one who paid for something (say helping someone who was several months behind on their mortgage, helping someone clear up their credit, renting a boat for a family outing, paying for stuff for my nieces and nephews, etc.) for people to enjoy themselves and make family gatherings better and more festive.
And then when I declined to pay for things later on, boy did I get some harsh **** thrown back at me by those same loved ones and family members who were more than happy to take my help or have me pick up the tab.
I few years back I lent an old friend 10K to help him through a tough stretch with his contracting business. He paid me back in a reasonable amount of time. A few years later he asked me for 7k for the same reason. I had to say no. He was not pleased.
It took a few months but he got over it. The old saying never lend a friend money has some validity.