If I put myself in Dasher's shoes, I can understand him being peeved. I have always said that I have Irish Alzheimer's...I forget everything except the grudges. I consider it my finest attribute. Also, my least attractive attribute, but still...
So I get where Dash is coming from.
However, as a retired executive, if I put myself in the Chancellor's shoes, I can very much understand his side as well. This whole thing has likely been litigated to death behind the scenes. It likely has involved any number of other donors, SU Legal, perhaps the Board, and a bunch of other issues we neither know about nor need to know about. I have zero doubt that others have willingly stepped up to address any shortfall based upon what AW might have donated. From Kent's standpoint, a decision was made, he is happy with it, others internally and external donors are likely happy, AW is free to donate through the collectives, and Kent has moved on to all the other things on his plate. I would bet a considerable sum that my assessment on that is correct.
So, out of the blue, he gets correspondence from someone he doesn't know, asking him to have lunch with someone that he has 0.0000000 desire to have lunch with, to discuss something that has already been debated to death, decided, and moved on from.
He's probably thinking "Who is this guy? I'll bet his name isn't really even Dasher!!" It is very likely not even the first time that someone has tried to mediate an issue that SU feels has been decided, and decided in a way they are happy with.
So for a variety of reasons, I can see silence coming from SU. "We have told AW he can donate to a collective, we have other sources who have stepped up, and there is nothing further to discuss." That is not an unreasonable stand to take. I get the "no formal response" objection but as I said earlier, it is likely (for legal and other reasons) their default action in this case.
Perhaps it may have helped some had Dash's acquaintance (who I am glad is NOT Joyce) intervened. Or perhaps not. SU may very well have put this whole thing in their rearview mirror, and perhaps justifiably so. Like Dasher, I would be peeved at the acquaintance (for my reasons, see paragraph #1).
Now, I'm hoping to do a better job of avoiding any thread with the letters "AW" in it.