Not sure if your situation, but I have twin boys graduating HS.
One is competing at a high level in sport and is headed to an ACC School, the other playing club lacrosse/squash.
They pick their own school. Are they future pro athletes? 99.99% no. But they are each 18 and as much as I want them to be babies, my job is to help make them the right decision for them.
I hope, as a Dad, Melo doesn’t force his kid to go anywhere versus prevent him from making a bad decision. And saying that makes me sense I am getting nicer as I age and I don’t like that….