Only have boys, leave wife at home and take them with you. I give my 2 boys about 15-20 min in the bouncy house before each home game, they are thrilled when i say it's gameday. For away games, learn to cook game food and make it creative. Wings for dad, whatever the wife wants, football shaped pb&j for the kids with some football oreos and SU plastic cups. Put kids in 44 jersey, now it's no longer dad just wants to watch the football game but dad is spending quality time with the kids. Do I always see every play? No, kids are distracting, but I see every game live.
If all else fails, have a game day party and invite her friends and their families. Women usually congregate and pay no attention to the men, kids keep each other busy, guys concentrate on the game. Just don't invite the one friend who's husband thinks college sports is a waste and wants to tell you how all that money should be spent on scholarships for academically superior students(he is annoying and obviously knows nothing).