Reasonable minds can disagree. Is this a huge deal? No. The comment to the kid was ok, not great but ok, the press conference was a bit ridiculous (and disingenuous) but not a huge deal. But in my view big loss by big loss Coach K is cementing his legacy as one of the least gracious losers in the history of major college basketball.
To follow my own comment -- full disclosure -- friend of mine told me last night he has played golf w/Jim Nance a few times and that Nance singles out Coach K as someone in sports he has high respect for. So I've got to give that some credit. But the point of many re: Coach K's classless post game conduct was further illustrated by Few last night, and the way he handled himself amidst intense disappointment. Some folks make good decisions in those situations some do not. Coach K often does not. Calhoun was the same way -- recall his comments post 6 OT and how little he complimented his players. I am sure he did on reflection, but in the moment he was too pissed to being anything but pissed. Coach K is the same way.