Yours is the attitude I find miserable.
You can't go into a football game thinking you are going to lose. It may be tough but you have to believe.
Expectations aligned with reality as a fan are that you are going to win and especially play respectfully, we did neither. Doesn't mean after the fact we just say oh well, they are better and we never had a shot. Upsets happen all the time.
How our fans right now can just say "oh well" after a loss like that, I don't understand. It's not even that we lost, it's how we did right out of the gate.
Am I upset we lost, sure I always am, but I can live with a loss to a national title contender on the road when our needed wins are still ahead of us. Am I upset at how we played, absolutely, that was pathetic for most of the game. How others aren't I don't understand.
This, "bigger, stronger, more talented, better recruit, etc" garbage is an embarrassing cop out.