I advise a deep breath for all us posters. Okay, now think about what some identify as criticism. I have hardly ever read a malicious comment on lacrosse fora, perhaps with the exception of obvious trollers. Those we should all call out, but evaluations of player or recruit skills are part of the nature of human observation. Judgements are human and if meant as an attempt to spur and provoke argument or interest, I say have at it. Feel free to speak out. The sooner kids discover that they will spend the rest of their lives being judged the better. As long as this stuff is not personal, bring it. If you don't like a comment, refute it or respond in some other way.
As a professional, I worked under the constant intense real time scrutiny of people much smarter and much better at the job than I was. Immeasurable growth for which I will always be grateful. I remember best the criticism that brought me up short, hit my core. The stuff that made me numb for a second.
These kids have also been observed and critiqued. Most of it has made them better players and people. I acknowledge that I have assessed a lot of players both positively and negatively on these fora. I will continue to do so. I enjoy it when you disagree with me. It gets me going. Keeps me interested. We don't need to become a "safe zone".