It's not what someone says or what their point is, it's how they say it.
I think this is generally a generational thing. At 49 years of age, I'm from a generation that told it (and was told) exactly how it was, no candy coating bs, etc. Speaking the truth, being brutally honest...if the truth hurts, than fix it...deal with it, etc. This kind of candor made us tougher individuals and to persevere, tough skin sort of speak...the 'ol adage, sticks and stones...
Today, at least in my general experience, the younger generation has a more difficult time (quoting an epic line) "
you can't handle the truth," dealing with such candor
. Many have been pampered, stroked all their lives, etc.,
I'm a proud parent of an exceptional kid bumper stickers, all kids receiving little league trophies, etc., etc.
I guess as a 49 year old parent, an argument can certainly be made that we've contributed in creating such an apparent fragile culture for the younger. Clearly, there is a certain degree of tact that should be used in relaying what is said, but our culture has evolved to being so touchy & overly sensitive to even a whiff of speaking the honest, and sometimes brutal truth...just my $.02.