Your last paragraph is the point I’m trying to make. We’re a tier below Duke or UNC but this league isn’t any better than the Big East circa 2004-2013 when we won it twice.
The universal thing about sports is the better you are the easier your schedule looks. Fact is we just haven't been very good the past few years so we have to resort to saying things like a double digit loss to a 10-6 GT team that lost to Gardner Webb at home is a product of a tougher ACC.
Our old teams from the BE wouldn't have a problem with much of the ACC the past few years and probably would have won a conference title or two. Some of those past UConn, Nova, Louisville, Georgetown, Pitt teams were just as good or better at the top of the conference than anyone we've seen in the ACC thus far.