This is very difficult and humbling. It seems that some part of many sports fans' psyches is the demonization of other teams. What we are learning (over and over and over) is that our teams, players, coaches are imperfect. It's the pure example of people who live in glass houses...
If we enjoy taunting, we must prepare to be taunted.
What if fans, upon hearing that other teams/players are having troubles, wished them well, and then went on with the business of figuring out match ups and skills, x's and o's, etc.? I know it would be a big shift in consciousness, but it might help us be better prepared when the spotlight inevitably swings back to us again. Let's not delight in other people's woes.
I have feelings about this, as we all do. Frustration, embarrassment, anger, etc. How do I manage my feelings so that I can be the best fan I can be, and not let this get me down? First, I wish Southerland well. I know he is suffering. Maybe I'll write him a letter. I've been known to do that. Next, I let my mind switch over to the many interesting possibilities his absence puts forward. I trust that Boeheim and the other coaches are doing this as well, and much much better than I can. (But it's still fun to think about!) I expect to lose some games. This becomes (yet another) story of overcoming adversity. Will our team be able to do it? I hope so!
It's difficult to be non-defensive. Sports is part of tribalism, and I am as tribal as the next person! I see all of us on this board trying to figure things out, and this is a place where we can (mostly) come to try to talk these things through and support one another. I am glad for this place and this space!
