I'm fairly agnostic about this situation, but I don't think this is a good analogy.
A head coach can't be talking about developing young men and all that stuff, then kick a guy off the team who's genuinely trying to figure out his path.
I mean, he *can*, obviously, but it reveals the "developing young men" stuff to be a lot of hot air.
Now, I know that it is a lot of hot air. And every HC who yaps about that is full of .
But most try to maintain the illusion.
Specific to this situation, I have no idea how genuine Alford was, and neither does anyone else. Just saying that it's not at all akin to someone telling their employer they are looking to leave. I doubt very few bosses talk about "developing young men".