My understanding is we reach out to these kids and invite them up with the intent to offer. But you get a chance to kick the tires and get to know each other and make sure it’s a good fit.
Seems to reason, sometimes the player is disappointed, sometimes the staff is disappointed.
This feels like one of those times. And if indeed the staff backed off, that is the absolute best news possible.
It means the staff is being selective and not compromising. In recruiting, you compromise when you have too, I don’t think this staff thinks they have to.
It reminds me of the classic Bill Cosby (cringe, I know) line when disciplining his kids. “I brought you into this world and I’ll take you out if it, and I’ll make another one that looks just you.”