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Thanks for making the board a better place.
May God bless you Steve.
May God bless you Steve.
Francis House has a memorial mass every year at St Daniel's to celebrate all those who have passed through there.So sad to hear this. He needs to be honored at halftime.
This should be a regular for ppl who really contribute to this place.
So true, I have experience with them too. It’s a very special place and happy that Steve is there with such wonderful people during this time.
Best ever. GOATIf we had a HOF for this board he’d be on it. Loved his posts through the years.
Steve doesn't have his computer with him. He would appreciate notes and cards.In case you read this...know that you are a legend Steve. You made a difference and won't be forgotten.
same, in honor of Steve. done and done.Just made a small donation to Francis House. It was quite easy to do online. I'm thinking of Steve.
I volunteer at Francis House- I actually cooked his breakfast yesterday without realizing that it was him ( didn’t know his last name). If there’s anything you can think of that he needs, please reach out to me and I can bring it to him.Steve doesn't have his computer with him. He would appreciate notes and cards.
Are there photos of him? I have the impression is a bit of a recluse. We need to make this happen!Not sure if this is possible, but I think it would be really special if Steve could somehow be acknowledged on the video board in the Dome during a game next season.
This is from a 2015 article including Steve.Are there photos of him? I have the impression is a bit of a recluse. We need to make this happen!
I found out that Francis House has internet - of course they would. - and I am bringing my iPad tomorrow morning and am going to read as many tributes to him as possible. Wish me luck!I volunteer at Francis House- I actually cooked his breakfast yesterday without realizing that it was him ( didn’t know his last name). If there’s anything you can think of that he needs, please reach out to me and I can bring it to him.
I volunteer at Francis House- I actually cooked his breakfast yesterday without realizing that it was him ( didn’t know his last name). If there’s anything you can think of that he needs, please reach out to me and I can bring it to him.
I found out that Francis House has internet - of course they would. - and I am bringing my iPad tomorrow morning and am going to read as many tributes to him as possible. Wish me luck!
This is from a 2015 article including Steve.
When and why did Syracuse stop being a football town? A fan, media, players give their takes
Reasons for poor attendance have been well-documented this week, but somewhere in its recent history this became a dilemma.www.syracuse.com
Are there photos of him? I have the impression is a bit of a recluse. We need to make this happen!
Steve is one of those people that make your day better. We need more people like this.
Hang in there Matt. Prayers and good thoughts for you, Steve and everyone else fighting or affected by cancer.So, many of us are in a certain age group that these things are happening now with greater frequency. I, too, have been fighting cancer for close to 3 years now. Mine started out as something seemingly insignificant, had surgery, they thought they got it all, but (of course) they didn't. And it spread, and it took about 9 months to get rid of the original set of tumors, three or four in all, in close proximity.
I was clear for about a year, and then they started coming back in September around Labor Day. My original cancer metastasized, and I've had a dozen more malignant tumors since then. Ten have been removed, two to go. I've had doctors visits pretty much once or twice a week for the last 6 months. Pretty much a new tumor every couple weeks, for half a year. I've had chemo, but so far I still have my hair! LOL
So, I reached out to Steve privately, to say, "hey, I'm going through something right now, too" and tried to offer some encouragement and hope.
The way I phrased it, though, went over like a lead balloon. My message missed the mark (as you often see on this forum!).
I said to him, "I've decided to make cancer my friend." What I meant by this was this: I know it's going to be with me for a while. I'm going to need to pay attention to this, and try to live with it. I have to embrace it, rather than be angry, because we know that when our body is in a positive place, we heal more effectively. Stress and anger and bullshit hurt the healing process. It's kind of a Buddhist outlook.
But he was not in a place of acceptance at that time (you know, on the "Stages of Grief" scale), he was angry about his tumor, and that's part of the process. It's totally understandable.
He wrote me back, though, and while he wasn't willing to accept his tumor as his "friend" (so understandably!), he told me that his brother is also going through something similar to me. And he said he would pass along my perspective, in hopes it could be helpful.
So, I wish Steve all the best. We're not really personal friends, but we have been "intimate strangers" on this board for the last 30 years. Many of us are like that. CTO and the Fine Mess gang have grown this community so much in person over all these years. I am grateful to you all for your friendship and community over the years.
I'm doing fine, knock on wood. Hope to continue to do so for many years to come. If you sense I'm irrationally angry sometimes in my posts, I hope you give me some grace and forgiveness, and keep this is mind. Namaste!
It's a smaller thing, but a shout on the coach's shows next season would be nice too. He was a weekly participant and his writeups were always fantastic.Not sure if this is possible, but I think it would be really special if Steve could somehow be acknowledged on the video board in the Dome during a game next season.
Are there photos of him? I have the impression is a bit of a recluse. We need to make this happen!