I've read all 55 pages of this thread, catching up because football recruiting, just ain't my thing but with the holidays, things are slow around the homestead so I waded into the murky waters.
Two things I learned today after spending WAY too much time on this... 1) for me, stop doing this and just watch the games; 2) the people who upset me the most aren't the kids who flip but those who tell everyone to calm down, there is more to life than losing a recruit, and other enlightening comments that help us gain better perspective.