HoustonCuse
2020-21 Iggy Winner Lead Scorer & Post Season Rcd
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It's funny to me how people use "I want him to stay as a fan of the program" while at the same time there are other supposed fans that dump on our kids publicly.
This is where the justification trap gets you. It is what I was talking about in my post. Some people feel they need to justify why they think the kid should stay and in the process, they end up trashing him to "prove" he isn't ready. I think there is a lot less malice in it that it may appear to the kid who is deciding, but the result looks the same.