You've got it twisted. You're the one bothered by "miserable people."
You're the one who doesn't understand perspective and context.
You're the one who doesn't recognize that kvetching occurs in every involved sports forum.
You're the one who doesn't understand sociology or psychology.
You're the one who can't deal that everyone doesn't feel or think the same way as you.
And you're the one who doesn't know that the things you say are not "facts." They're 'perspectives.' Subjective. The "fact" that you call it "misery"—i mean, jeezus, that's just, like, your opinion, man. That's not a fact. It's not even true. All i'm seeing is a lot of calm-to-spirited discussion about who we are, who we should/could be, and the future of a program that means a great deal to us. Not sure why you require a dispassionate take on all of that, or how you ignore the ironic conflict of also wanting it to be 'rah-rah,' we're great as-is. But, i'd suggest that perspective isn't at all fact-based.