For what it's worth, the camera showed Deere and Anderson laughing and joking around after a goal in the fourth quarter. Didn't look like two teammates at odds with each other. Hopefully this is just limited to one parent.
Anderson looked good last night in mop up duty, and I'm rooting for him to get a starting spot next year. This roster right now just doesn't have a lot of openings. I with he would get some looks on the second midfield line, but guys on that unit aren't playing poorly enough to be benched (in my mind at least). Cordes is coming off a four point outing against Hopkins. Hottle has had some nice performances this year and also isn't a liability on the defensive end. And while the stats haven't been piling up for McCarthy, he's a mini-Sam English out there, playing a ton of defense, is on the face-off wings, and also doesn't make mistakes. He would be a heat map king if they tracked player movement during a game.
Last point, I understand fully advocating for your kid and wanting what is best for them, but if you are making such a fuss that fans in the stadium are noticing your displeasure, it really is time to reevaluate things. Again, I am only rooting for the players in question, hopefully cooler heads prevail here.