I used to be right there with you on this, but I realized after a while that the ROSUF (Rutgers-Obsessed SU Fan), a by-product of the insecurity emanating from the Gerg Era, was here to stay. Its just a different way of how they see this thing. I see it as a homage to classic Syracuse insecurity and inferiority complex, they see it as a "goof' and no big deal. I still have hope that once we start to take care of business, the ROSUF will be too busy caring about SU and not worry about Rutgers as much. But even then its not an either/or proposition, both POV's can co-exist.
In the meantime I've learned to accept this thread and will continue check in every now and then. It is what it is.