Shockers: Grace Kelly, the Space Shuttle, Diana, JFK Jr., Prince, Kobe.
I truly don't even remember when Michael Jackson died or how i felt about it. I don't know why that's missing. Not meant to be a slight on him—i remember telling my best friend who is a massive fan, but i don't remember the effect on me.
Today, though—massive. So young, and so 'familiar.' With the Lakers as my team since Magic, and then with cable, and then living in LA the past 8 years, i probably saw Kobe more than any other player in my lifetime. And just yesterday in our minds as Lebron took the record. With Prince, he was massive for me in the 80s, but not really since. With Diana, i was never into 'the royals' or anything, but it was a global tragedy. I was in the Lawrinson 20 lounge, watching live when the space shuttle exploded. Maybe that was the worst...
Kobe was someone i had mixed feelings about. I thought his game was among the most beautiful ever. Sometimes a mirror of Jordan, and it was obvious who he wanted to be, but unlike all the other MJ wannabes, Kobe actually was as close to the real deal as you could be. The 'Denver thing' was hard to deal with. He was the star of my favorite team, but after that, i just couldn't be a Kobe fan. Same with Shaq—great player on my favorite team, winning championships for my team, but i disliked his personality and game, so there were some 'conflicts.' But, damn—maybe the most memorable play in my memory was in that Western Conference final, the Kobe to Shaq alley oop. I was in a cafe in Rio, watching with about 20 other americans and 10 Brazilians, and the place went absolutely nuts.
Helicopters, man. I just don't like them. So horrifically sad, to go with your daughter. To lose seven others who were just thrilled to be there.
I want to hope this kind of sudden tragedy means something more significant and long-lasting to people. That they'll embrace the constant opportunities to remind themselves what love and family and life and humanity mean, but i know those feelings will last only a few days and we'll all be back to our base, simple flaws.