Every person and situation is unique. The older I get, the more I understand that and the more absolutes bother me.
I was charged with DWI when I was 19 or 20. It was ultimately dismissed (Alcohol evaluation, no need for counseling, clean record, etc.). I got a second chance an have been an attorney for 40 years.
My oldest son got caught doing some things he shouldn’t have been doing while in college. He got a second chance. He will likely be promoted to Chief in the navy this year, and has multiple commendations, including the Joint Services Task Force Medal for his work when he was assigned to the NSA at Fort Meade.
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