Yes, I disagree with your characterization of our fanbase as it pertains to recruiting. You are also comparing an elite [arguably] program on the hoops side to one that is still in the throes of a rebuild on the football side. So the baseline is not a consistent comparison--especially from the standpoint of prestige, recent success, facilities, or the caliber of recruit each program can legitimately land.
You want to know what else is tiresome? Listening to people whine and make sweeping generalizations about the fanbase and the points of view they express. Are there some reactions like you're describing? Sure. But there are a lot of highly knowledgeable posters with their fingers on the pulse of recruiting, who provide tremendous insight / insider perspective, as well. If you honestly find recruiting discussions so tiring, then you need to figure out which posters fit into each respective category, and start paying more attention to the posters who provide value.