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How much for the little girl?Four whole fried chickens
How much for the little girl?Four whole fried chickens
I have this weird vibe where Gait and Petro coaching together somehow still feels like "gettin' the band back together."
Four whole fried chickens
And a coke
Don't you blaspheme in here!!!!How much for the little girl?
The fact that Pietramala didn't dismiss the idea of his sons coming along is a hopeful sign. His answer to the question about his sons was one of the rare moments of "coachspeak" (or, perhaps, better, "fatherspeak").Have now watched the Petro presser and read a bunch of the articles that were written about the presser. I am really impressed with the former Hopkins coach. He had long detailed answers to each question, very thoughtful, very composed. It wasn't just coach speak either, you could tell he really believed what he was saying. He clearly has a plan in place. I was ready to run through a brick wall after the first few minutes. This is a guy who knows himself and knows what type of team he wants to have. I think this hire is a home run.
I am not sure what went wrong at Hopkins but it really feels like it was a classic "change of scenery" situation. I don't want to get too psychoanalyst here, but it really seems like Petro had to get away, and now that he's in a new situation, seems very dedicated to achieving greatness. 20 years at one place is a long time! I know there are concerns that he'll just cut and run at the first chance at a head coaching job, but - 1) being a top assistant at Syracuse can sometimes be better than the head man at a lower level place, 2) Head coaching opportunities in the ACC/Big 10 don't come around that often and 3) There's no guarantee that if one of those schools have an opening, he would be their first choice.
The wildcard here is his sons. If they change their commitment to Syracuse, that would obviously be huge for a number of reasons but I think it would also help signal that Petro views this as a more long term commitment. Obviously there are the comments from LaxFactor, and a poster on FanLax who predicted the that Gait would be the new HC for the men's team and Petro would be his DC is also saying the twins are Syracuse bound. Fingers crossed, obviously.
Obviously a biased and uninformed opinion, but the twins jumping over would only seem to make sense. Dad's goal is to win some championships and build back his resume and reputation. Kids' goals are to win some championships to create a reputation, maybe play pro, etc. They can't both win championships at the same time. Why wouldn't they do whatever they could to help each other reach their goals? That is of course unless Petro's kids are like my own and would never willingly play for a team their dad coached even if their life (or XBox) depended on it.The wildcard here is his sons. If they change their commitment to Syracuse, that would obviously be huge for a number of reasons but I think it would also help signal that Petro views this as a more long term commitment. Obviously there are the comments from LaxFactor, and a poster on FanLax who predicted the that Gait would be the new HC for the men's team and Petro would be his DC is also saying the twins are Syracuse bound. Fingers crossed, obviously.
Obviously a biased and uninformed opinion, but the twins jumping over would only seem to make sense. Dad's goal is to win some championships and build back his resume and reputation. Kids' goals are to win some championships to create a reputation, maybe play pro, etc. They can't both win championships at the same time. Why wouldn't they do whatever they could to help each other reach their goals? That is of course unless Petro's kids are like my own and would never willingly play for a team their dad coached even if their life (or XBox) depended on it.
As a glass half empty kind of guy, I had the opposite interpretation- the ambiguous answer was worrisome. You have to think that if the kids were going to jump, they would do it soon so as not to string UNC along.The fact that Pietramala didn't dismiss the idea of his sons coming along is a hopeful sign. His answer to the question about his sons was one of the rare moments of "coachspeak" (or, perhaps, better, "fatherspeak").
Hmmm...I get your point. However, as the kid, would you prefer playing for your dad or against your dad? It’s not like they committed to a school that wouldn’t play Syracuse every year. They’ve already said in an article that they wanted to play for their dad, it just wasn’t an option that they could foresee. I don’t think it shows lack of character at all to respectfully change their commitments considering what has transpired since their commitment to UNC.If they were my sons, I would not hesitate. I'd advise them to stick with their commitments. I'd add that the benefits of that act would last forever and be far more important than any athletic accomplishments. "And you two, I will be proud of you both when I coach against your team, more proud than I would be if you scored a dozen goals for SU against UNC." Character matters.
As a glass half empty kind of guy, I had the opposite interpretation- the ambiguous answer was worrisome. You have to think that if the kids were going to jump, they would do it soon so as not to string UNC along.
It's the hard decisions that build character not the ones with easy outs. Hell, I played against my father's hockey team and loved to beat them. Then we went out and had a beer. I think I would respect a father who told me to stick to a commitment even though there were enticing alternatives, more than the father who does not see the lesson, the opportunity in the moment. I was very impressed with Pietramala's thoughtfulness, tact, intelligence, foresight, and enthusiasm demonstratedHmmm...I get your point. However, as the kid, would you prefer playing for your dad or against your dad? It’s not like they committed to a school that wouldn’t play Syracuse every year. They’ve already said in an article that they wanted to play for their dad, it just wasn’t an option that they could foresee. I don’t think it shows lack of character at all to respectfully change their commitments considering what has transpired since their commitment to UNC.
Well, one of them plays defense, so...They'd be playing for Gait, not "their dad."
I generally agree with the verbal agreement premise as a promise, but where I have a problem is that sophs and juniors are generally not 18 years old, so I suspect some parental involvement is in order when these "promises" are being made. Certainally Dave P should know this as well as any parent.Because I believe this discussion has broad implications for college sports, I want to revive for a moment the dead horse discussion of commitments. I am inferring from the comments above that a verbal commitment from an 18 year old should not be considered a "real commitment", first because it is not a written commitment and second because an adolescent made it. Neither argument convinces me. By law, verbal contracts are as binding as written contracts. By ethics, verbal commitments are promises. I know the NCAA buys the questionable notion that only written commitments are binding. The verbal commitment requires the institution to include in its calculations the player who has so committed. So, if it is an ethical school, it remains committed to the player until signing occurs or does not occur.
A promise to a large organization is an adult rite of passage and should be honored as such by the player. A kid can go anywhere he chooses. Rightly so, but she or he ought to spend a lot more time examining the implications and responsibilities of the decision. I apply all this to college players who don't get the world they want from a school fast enough, so they run to another. I understand the obvious counter argument that employees are free agents and may work anywhere they please.
Sometimes this entitlement is sorely abused.
From a legal perspective, contracts entered into by minors are voidable.I generally agree with the verbal agreement premise as a promise, but where I have a problem is that sophs and juniors are generally not 18 years old, so I suspect some parental involvement is in order when these "promises" are being made. Certainally Dave P should know this as well as any parent.
Why? Because you need to stop?Who's the HEAD coach, Gait or Petro? Give me a brake...