Great post Bam. Regardless of what the team did the prior year, come July I always end up finding myself excited for the upcoming season. I think the majority of SU fans feel this way.
You have to understand that in CNY, there is a love hate relationship with SU. Some people are just outrageously negative, and Eeyore like. I'm not sure if it's growing up in the cold, or a town that has seen most of its jobs leave or what, but there are many (my best friends and parents included!) who will be negative beyond rationality to anything "good" in the area. I'm not sure the reason, but it is different in other parts of the country. So, when people talk about the "good old days" in the '90s around here, and then gripe about everything wrong with the current team, the players, coaches, etc..., understand that they probably did the same exact thing during "the good old days."
They will call this healthy cynicism, or being able to have their own opinion, and it's a message board, so dammit, they can say what they want! I don't necessarily disagree with this if it's constructive, and not mean spirited. These people claim others are "pollyannas" and seeing things through orange tinted glasses. What they aren't capable of seeing in themselves though, is that they're doing the same exact thing in the opposite direction. They're projecting a negative outlook forward into the next season, without any basis for it. Yes, the team played poorly last year, but the players never gave up. There were tons of injuries (EXCUSES! Cry the cynicists), the offense didn't come together (LESTER SUCKS TOO!) even though the new OC never got to start a new offense. He's going to run a "12" personnel grouping (IT'S AWFUL! I know football and all the schemes because I play Madden and assistant coach my kids Pop Warner team!!!), and Terrell Hunt is coming back and is confident in the new offense (THEY SAY THAT EVERY YEAR, WE'RE DOOMED!!!).
You see, some people will never be truly happy. If the team goes out there and wins, some of those folks (the ones who truly are fans) will probably come around. Others just like to be grumpy, and upset at something. It's like it's their venting outlet. Life sucks, work sucks, school sucks, city sucks, I can take it out on these young men who put more work and time into an endeavor than I probably ever have in my entire life. Why they do it? Probably it's ingrained in them, a learned behavior, something they saw in their parents, and they do it themselves.
How do I know? I used to be one of them. I used to be that person. Recently I've had two little girls, and started reflecting on my upbringing. I was a lucky kid, with everything I needed in life. I love my family and CNY greatly, and would move back in a second if I could. But I didn't want that pervasive negativity for my kids, for my family. I've worked on changing myself these past three years into being a better, happier, more optimistic person. It's a game, and these kids come to play for SU, and Coach Shafer seems like a great person who has the right priorities in terms of what athletes he chooses to bring in. I hope that attitude will eventually breed success on the football field. I CHOOSE to believe that it will. It may not, and things may go south, but why just expect that? What's the sense of just BELIEVING things will end badly? I may as well be happy and optimistic in the preseason, and hope that I see signs of progress during the year. Because I know beyond anything else that even though I have a lot invested in this team personally, my personal stake isn't in the SAME UNIVERSE with Coach Shafer and the players. They want to win (I'm sure) even more badly than I want them to win. So I'll give them the benefit of the doubt, because after all, aren't we all on the same team here? /rant